Honesty first
Everyone here wants no strings fun, so nobody has to pretend otherwise. Say what you want on your profile and you'll meet people who want it too.
Online since 2012
About Old F-Buddy: Our Mission
To connect grown-ups who want no strings fun, with respect and discretion central to everything we do.
A site that says what it is
Since 2012, Old F-Buddy has introduced older men and women who want no strings attached fun. The name says it plainly, and so do we.
Grown-ups want sex without a relationship attached more often than anyone admits, and a lot of them want a partner with a few years on the clock. Old F-Buddy is for them. We treat no strings fun as what it is: a perfectly good way for two adults to enjoy themselves, with nobody judging and nobody else needing to know.
We still ask the question we always have: "Looking for an Old Fuck Buddy?" What has grown is everything around it: the tools for finding someone near you, the checks that keep the site safe and the guides that answer the questions people really ask.
Grown-up fun, done properly
Discretion always
Members see a username, not your name, and a town, not your address. Explicit photos stay behind a blur until someone opts to see them.
Age is an asset
Over 80% of our members are at least 35, and half are 45 or older. Experience is the attraction, not something to hide.
Respect, every time
Members agree to community rules. Anyone who treats people badly can be blocked in a tap and reported to our moderators.
Straight answers
Every price is published, every safety check is explained, and our guides tell it like it is.
Here around the clock
A real support team answers by live chat, phone and help desk ticket, 24 hours a day.
Who you'll meet
Our members are grown-ups across the UK, with the most in Greater London, Greater Manchester and Hampshire. Women make up about half of our UK members, almost three in four of them aged 35 to 54, while six in ten of the UK men are 55 or older. This is the age mix across the whole site:
Under 3515%
35 to 4434%
45 to 5420%
55 to 6415%
65 and over15%
Age shares of all our members, from our member records.
Old F-Buddy runs on a dating platform it shares with sister sites, so the member area includes members with all interests and characteristics. Our search settings let you find exactly who you're looking for. Read more about older women looking for no strings fun or find an old fuck buddy near you.
Safe, private and above board
Uploads are screened as they arrive, by moderators and by software. Members can verify their identity with a document or a live video check, and age is estimated automatically, with further checks where the law requires them. Off-platform contact alerts warn you if someone tries to rush you onto another app.
An Isle of Man company runs the service, and its full name appears in the terms shown when you join. The site also follows the best practice of the Online Dating and Discovery Association. Our safety page explains every protection, and our honest look at whether Old F-Buddy is legit answers the usual questions.
Have a good look round
See what members get on our features page and what each plan costs on our prices page. Our guides for grown-ups cover everything from first messages to sex after 50, and our comparisons show how Old F-Buddy sits beside the names you know.
What people ask about Old F-Buddy
How long has Old F-Buddy been running?
Since 2012, and it has been introducing grown-ups to older lovers ever since.
Is Old F-Buddy only for people over 50?
No. The only age rule is 18 or over. Old F-Buddy suits anyone who fancies an older partner, and half our members are aged 45 and up.
How do I contact Old F-Buddy?
Once you've joined, our support team is there 24 hours a day by live chat, the chat bot, phone or a help desk ticket.